It’s spreading like a disease, this over dosed curiosity & it’s killing me! I mean when I sneak on someone’s updates on facebook & then I get really frustrated when I find out that their facebook activities haven’t changed since the last time I checked!
Recently, there are two people on my stalking list. One of them is a friend, the other isn’t. I have 9 mutual friends between me & the one (not my friend) I’m spying at . And I sometimes try to analyze how he knows them because I know them from different places. I was really glad because he hasn’t privatized his profile so I had free access to photos, wall & status updates which was really satisfying. I even checked his activities on the mutual friends profiles, found some comments and commented back but that lead to nowhere, of course.
The other person, the friend, is a very active person on facebook. I often get the chance to reply or comment but that’s not really effective because of the huge number of fans, I mean friends he has.
It is becoming sick actually, to project ideas & feelings on ppl I haven’t met in real life. Perhaps if I have, it would wipe out all the illusions that I have weaved around those people. This virtual reality facebook is providing is really damaging to those, like me, born curious.
Regarding the person who is not my friend, I decided not to check his profile again & regarding the one who is, I’m seriously considering hiding him from my newsfeed page to control the stupid jealousy attacks I get whenever I see a specific someone commenting on his page. I’m giving myself a week…If I don’t succeed, I’m deactivating my facebook account!